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the week of being still

When I was in college I remember learning about a tradition they had at the Taos Indian Pueblo in Taos, New Mexico. At the end of every year, they close the pueblo to tourists and have what they call "The Time of Being Still". I love the idea of setting aside some time to just be still. And so at the start of this busy and sometimes rushed holiday season we are having our own family "Week of Being Still".

This is one of those traditions that is still being formed in my head, but so far it's been nice. We're trying not to do too many things outside the house this week. We're spending time each evening talking about Christmas and why we celebrate, and we're slowly pulling out the decorations piece by piece. First the advent calendar, then the Christmas tree, then the lights and the ornaments. We're reading about Mary and Joseph and listening to quiet carols and having dinner by candlelight (which is a big hit with the kids).

We still have to buy and wrap and mail a few gifts, and bring goodies to the neighbors, and write a long list of Christmas cards.. but we'll start all that hustle and bustle next week. This week we're being still.

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Reader Comments (28)

What book do you read regarding Mary and Jospeh?

12.2.2009 | Unregistered Commenterlynelle

I love this idea...trying to find a bit of stillness myself, this week.

what a beautiful ritual to start. I love this idea — even the concept of eating dinner by candlelight would make such a difference in your day being more still.

12.4.2009 | Unregistered Commenterjen jafarzadeh

I really appreciate this post. While reading all my normal blogs I see everyone beginning to do Christmasy things and feel like I'm the most boring mama around. I have had a still week here while gearing up in my mind for this season, and you have provided a thoughtful explanation for my inactivity.

12.4.2009 | Unregistered Commentermelanie

i love that idea. really beautiful.

12.4.2009 | Unregistered Commenterjoanna goddard

Very nice idea. Usually this happens after Christmas, but it would be a good way for us to start the Christmas season.

12.8.2009 | Unregistered CommenterAimee

Love it! I made one this year -- here is mine. Thank you for the wonderful idea -- my girls love hanging an ornament every day!

12.10.2009 | Unregistered CommenterHeatherC

I love this. This is how Shabbat functions for our family each week: a day of mindfulness to remember what's really important.

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